I think Tom Cruise should go to Japan if he wants a young 26 year old girl. I hear that in Japan a lot of men Tom Cruises age love women in their 20’s. No joke! It is a common sight. I think not. Several sites have people talking about how Tom frequents Japan and how his strange relationship is simular to that of one in Japan that split up recently. Yumi Adachi 23 and Arthur Kuroda 44. If it is common in Japan for older men to date young women in their 20’s, then why was the public, friends, parents of Yumi Adachi successful in breaking her up with Arthur due to the 21 year age difference? I guess age does matter no matter where you go. I just think all celebrities have their heads screwed on backwards and older men are now finding it easier to worm their way into the young and naive mind that believes everything a man says so they get what they want.
What is happening in our world these days? Celebrities acting like children. I see something wrong in parenting. While reading the paper, I came across an article about a 30 year old Kalihi man who sexually assaulted a 17 year old girl. The suspect in question turns out to be the 17 year old’s ex boyfriend. What parent in their right mind would allow a 17 year old to date a 30 year old man? I have one simple advice for these young people. If your crazy enough to date someone who can pose as your father; I feel sorry for the first man who becomes your future husband. But there is a catch. He cannot be around your fathers age. A woman’s first sexual experience should be with her first husband. Not with some older guy who is hell bent on glorifying his sexual ego. Celebrities should start providing good role modeling, because parent’s are not doing their job.
I used to like Tom Cruise but he is a changed person. Katie is OK, but doesn’t understand dating.Katie is a guy hopper.An older man should know when he is too old for a younger woman who is 20 something, but instead; they take advantage of her. Especially guys like that Kalihi guy. 30 year old with a 17 year old? Now he is a pedophile. 42 year old with a 26 year old? He is undergoing a midlife crisis. A 41 year old with a 20 year old? Now that one has a major menopausal midlife crisis and very horney for pleasure. I know of Yumi Adachi and I felt very sorry for her because I knew she was too young for Arthur and I including many others did not trust him.He was up to something and everyone knew it. Arthur should have definately known better not to persue Yumi because of his age. Well, Bachi is the word for anyone who tries to manipulate and have a relationship end. I did not even believe he loved Yumi, even if he wanted to marry her. She was like a trophy for himself. Yumi was smart to let go. Very good minded woman. Tom and Katie’s marriage may not work either. Katies mom is even concerned about the relationship working due to age difference. Like they say. Young women at heart can fall blind to false love.
Tom Cruise has his true colors showing. He is after Katie’s virginity. She has changed her wedding plans and now says she does not want to marry anytime soon. So why the hell did she accept a marriage proposal? Everyone knows that if a man rushes marriage he is only interested in sex and security.Especially if he is keen to getting married. Katie did boast about her virginity and it naturally sent Tom’s sex craved mind into overdrive. Now Tom has gone bazerk and is risking losing his virgin sweetheart. Didn’t Katie say how happy she is with Tom and how lucky she is? She also stated that they will have a honeymoon everyday for the rest of their lives. The things young ladies say when they are blinded by attraction. She does not look too happy to me these days. Even Yumi adachi boated of happiness with Arthur Kuroda and I am sad to know she even let an older 41 year old guy take away her innocence at the age of 20. I understand anyway. In Japan, men and women are taught that as long as you are attracted to someone, sex is OK and a normal part of a relationship. They do not believe in saving your virginity for marriage or for that special someone youdo want to marry. In the U.S., men are taught that sex is a means to score and get lucky. The women are taught to be cautious with sex because of what men are taught. I can imagine the manipulation and deception Arthur had with Yumi thinking like a U.S. guy. It is very easy and almost too easy to take advantage of Japanese ladies in Japan because of the way they view sex. Katie is learning that Tom is impatient and a temperamental guy. Katie, listen to your friends and do not marry Tom. His action’s speak more than words can say.
Everyone has got it going on in this blog. I agree with what you say. One morning while reading the paper, I came across a headline: Katie Holmes is still a virgin at 26 and wants to remain one until marriage. I looked at my husband and stated ” I bet Tom Cruise will propose marriage quickly” “I give him 2 weeks.”
What happened 2 weeks later? A proposal emerged. Sex has everything to do with huge age differences in couples. Mostly initiated by older men upon younger women. Right now I am learning that Katie is stalling her marriage plans and does not mind enjoying her engagement right now and is in no rush to marry. I am also learning that because of this, Tom has grown resentful and is having rages of anger. Grows temperamental daily and other celebrities find his behavior demeaning. Katies friends are now asking her to use caution and some do not want her marrying Tom. Some are telling her to test his patience. And that is exactly what she is doing by holding on to her engagement and letting it last much longer than Tom wants it to. It does not take a geniuos to see this man is itching to get into her pants. If she was Penelope Cruz’s age, I can gauruntee Tom would care less. But little sweet innocent Katie is still childlike at 26 and a virgin. A middle aged man’s dream woman.
Eh so cool.
Yah! celebrities are the worlds biggest fools. I do not like Tom Cruise one bit. I am only on here for Yumi Adachi. I was googling and came across this. Everybody is right. If Tom Cruise was a commoner he would not be dating someone as young as Katie holmes. Its a publicity stunt. Notice there is no talk anymore about Tom and Katie? there is supposed to be an August wedding. SO WHERE IS IT? No mass histeria over Tom and Katie’s wedding? Well at least someone is smart enough to make the insane older male wait to have sex. I am going to rant and rave about Yumi. Yes she is a hot number and she clearly shows it in magazines and the internet. I can clearly see what Arthur Kuroda saw in that woman. I liked her so much when I was young and she was young. But now that she is now a woman, she has gone from a sweet, humble, respectable person and into a hussy. In Japan, they call hussies skebbe. I no longer have respect for her. As an actress she has power to not do explicit photo’s, but it seems like she enjoys it. if she ever complains as to why she attracts all the jerks and not respectable loving men; I will laugh in her face. All she has to do is look at her photo’s and she will see that her image in magazines and the internet attract these horny men. She already caught one in his 40’s.Thanks to her obsession with her boobs. There are more to come in the future if she keeps on exploiting herself in a prostitute fashion. It is a money making thing but she needs to see that her image affects mens interest in her. I have read on some blogs that pictures are not worth a thousand words and that Yumi is a modest person. But no man will see that if her photo’s show the opposite personality. after all, her very first serious relationship came from a man in his 40’s. Old enough to be her dad. In fact the guy is older than her dad. How naive can she be? Well Yumi. Good luck in your search for the perfect guy, because most of your experiences will come from men who see you only in a seductive face like yours wearing itty bitty teeny bikini’s and fluanting your boobs in everything you wear. And I thought Japanese women were supposed to be humble, respectable, prudent and with a lot of morality? I guess not. You are catching up to Paris Hilton, Pamela Sue Anderson and Christina aguilara. All of whom questioned why they get all the bad guys. Duh?????? Just take a look at yourselves and how you exploit yourselves. Maybe Tom cruise is inlove. At least Katie Holmes does not flaunt herself in an explicit way!!!!!.
I saw an interesting article in the USA Weekend paper that brought back memories plus holds true facts.Lois Metlika asked Lorrie Lynch the publisher for USA weekend and asked if Tom Cruise is going through a mid life crisis because of familiar resemblence clues:
1. Jumping on couches 2.wearing black leather 3. driving motorcycles 4. Traveling everywhere with a girlfriend 16 years younger. Lois asked Lorrie if Lorrie agrees? Lorrie Lynche’s response was a big fat YES. I also agree with Lorrie Lynch. I myself will admit that I dated a man 21 years older than me. I at 22 he at 43. I regret dating him because I now carry a sign over my head that reads: Thats the 22 year old ditz that dated that desperate 43 year old baby boomer. Yes its true. If a woman in her young 20’s dates a man born between 1949 through 1964? He is born in the baby boom erra. Gee! When you come to think of it? That is pretty darn old!! He was a total sweetheart and the best relationship I had, but it comes with flaws. They are not in love but are going through denial of aging. At 20 something you are even too naive and belive he is in love with you until you notice he is too pushy and obsessive. They have a need to be desired by women. Older women do not seem to provide this because now that I am 33 years of age, I do not have that magic quality that drew older men to my attention like I did in my 20’s. Older men seem to seek younger women and for what? LUST. Here are the clues to look for if you are in your 20’s and dating a man in his 40’s:
1. He takes love and marriage too seriously to fast. Marriage becomes topic of conversation too soon and it never stops.
1. A) typical excuse for marrying? ( I am getting old and need to settle down very soon.)
2. Tons of gifts and compliments constantly.
3. He clings to you like an octopus.
4. He focuses exclusively on the object of his passion to the point you feel like an object of love.
5. It doesn’t matter how old they are; when passion hits? they become like teenagers in love.
6. When alone together at anytime, forget about romance or intimate talks. Sex is formost on his mind. You always wind up in bed getting busy. There is not one single day he will never ask for sex.
7. He will do anything to please you. He also seeks pleasure in sex with eager enjoyment.
8. The beginning of the relationship is intimate and blissful until he becomes too engrossed with you that you start to lose interest in him.
Breaking up with him is not the easiest thing too.
It took me an entire year to break up with him. I pitty Katie Holmes because if she ever has the need to break up with Tom cruise? It will take a lot of hard work and patience on Katies part. I can imagine what strong effert it took Yumi Adachi to break up with Arthur although I do not know who she is. Katie? I do wish you much luck when that time comes and you have to leave Tom because he is now too pushy for you to deal with.
Well…so much for the virginity and respecting the fact that she wanted hold out. Tom done got him some and a babies on the way. How special. I think she has made the biggest mistake of her life and she will regret it forever.
9 responses so far ↓
1 Kimberly // Jun 20, 2005 at 3:17 pm
I think Tom Cruise should go to Japan if he wants a young 26 year old girl. I hear that in Japan a lot of men Tom Cruises age love women in their 20’s. No joke! It is a common sight. I think not. Several sites have people talking about how Tom frequents Japan and how his strange relationship is simular to that of one in Japan that split up recently. Yumi Adachi 23 and Arthur Kuroda 44. If it is common in Japan for older men to date young women in their 20’s, then why was the public, friends, parents of Yumi Adachi successful in breaking her up with Arthur due to the 21 year age difference? I guess age does matter no matter where you go. I just think all celebrities have their heads screwed on backwards and older men are now finding it easier to worm their way into the young and naive mind that believes everything a man says so they get what they want.
2 Kainoa // Jul 1, 2005 at 10:10 am
Eh sistah! leave da braddah alone. If he like marry one little girl. His fault da chick leave um fo somebody youngah.
Kainoa.
3 Glenn // Jul 1, 2005 at 4:06 pm
What is happening in our world these days? Celebrities acting like children. I see something wrong in parenting. While reading the paper, I came across an article about a 30 year old Kalihi man who sexually assaulted a 17 year old girl. The suspect in question turns out to be the 17 year old’s ex boyfriend. What parent in their right mind would allow a 17 year old to date a 30 year old man? I have one simple advice for these young people. If your crazy enough to date someone who can pose as your father; I feel sorry for the first man who becomes your future husband. But there is a catch. He cannot be around your fathers age. A woman’s first sexual experience should be with her first husband. Not with some older guy who is hell bent on glorifying his sexual ego. Celebrities should start providing good role modeling, because parent’s are not doing their job.
4 Kiki // Jul 6, 2005 at 9:28 am
I used to like Tom Cruise but he is a changed person. Katie is OK, but doesn’t understand dating.Katie is a guy hopper.An older man should know when he is too old for a younger woman who is 20 something, but instead; they take advantage of her. Especially guys like that Kalihi guy. 30 year old with a 17 year old? Now he is a pedophile. 42 year old with a 26 year old? He is undergoing a midlife crisis. A 41 year old with a 20 year old? Now that one has a major menopausal midlife crisis and very horney for pleasure. I know of Yumi Adachi and I felt very sorry for her because I knew she was too young for Arthur and I including many others did not trust him.He was up to something and everyone knew it. Arthur should have definately known better not to persue Yumi because of his age. Well, Bachi is the word for anyone who tries to manipulate and have a relationship end. I did not even believe he loved Yumi, even if he wanted to marry her. She was like a trophy for himself. Yumi was smart to let go. Very good minded woman. Tom and Katie’s marriage may not work either. Katies mom is even concerned about the relationship working due to age difference. Like they say. Young women at heart can fall blind to false love.
5 Nobuko // Jul 18, 2005 at 8:42 am
Tom Cruise has his true colors showing. He is after Katie’s virginity. She has changed her wedding plans and now says she does not want to marry anytime soon. So why the hell did she accept a marriage proposal? Everyone knows that if a man rushes marriage he is only interested in sex and security.Especially if he is keen to getting married. Katie did boast about her virginity and it naturally sent Tom’s sex craved mind into overdrive. Now Tom has gone bazerk and is risking losing his virgin sweetheart. Didn’t Katie say how happy she is with Tom and how lucky she is? She also stated that they will have a honeymoon everyday for the rest of their lives. The things young ladies say when they are blinded by attraction. She does not look too happy to me these days. Even Yumi adachi boated of happiness with Arthur Kuroda and I am sad to know she even let an older 41 year old guy take away her innocence at the age of 20. I understand anyway. In Japan, men and women are taught that as long as you are attracted to someone, sex is OK and a normal part of a relationship. They do not believe in saving your virginity for marriage or for that special someone youdo want to marry. In the U.S., men are taught that sex is a means to score and get lucky. The women are taught to be cautious with sex because of what men are taught. I can imagine the manipulation and deception Arthur had with Yumi thinking like a U.S. guy. It is very easy and almost too easy to take advantage of Japanese ladies in Japan because of the way they view sex. Katie is learning that Tom is impatient and a temperamental guy. Katie, listen to your friends and do not marry Tom. His action’s speak more than words can say.
6 Ayri // Jul 21, 2005 at 9:56 am
Everyone has got it going on in this blog. I agree with what you say. One morning while reading the paper, I came across a headline: Katie Holmes is still a virgin at 26 and wants to remain one until marriage. I looked at my husband and stated ” I bet Tom Cruise will propose marriage quickly” “I give him 2 weeks.”
What happened 2 weeks later? A proposal emerged. Sex has everything to do with huge age differences in couples. Mostly initiated by older men upon younger women. Right now I am learning that Katie is stalling her marriage plans and does not mind enjoying her engagement right now and is in no rush to marry. I am also learning that because of this, Tom has grown resentful and is having rages of anger. Grows temperamental daily and other celebrities find his behavior demeaning. Katies friends are now asking her to use caution and some do not want her marrying Tom. Some are telling her to test his patience. And that is exactly what she is doing by holding on to her engagement and letting it last much longer than Tom wants it to. It does not take a geniuos to see this man is itching to get into her pants. If she was Penelope Cruz’s age, I can gauruntee Tom would care less. But little sweet innocent Katie is still childlike at 26 and a virgin. A middle aged man’s dream woman.
7 Russell // Aug 25, 2005 at 12:36 pm
Eh so cool.
Yah! celebrities are the worlds biggest fools. I do not like Tom Cruise one bit. I am only on here for Yumi Adachi. I was googling and came across this. Everybody is right. If Tom Cruise was a commoner he would not be dating someone as young as Katie holmes. Its a publicity stunt. Notice there is no talk anymore about Tom and Katie? there is supposed to be an August wedding. SO WHERE IS IT? No mass histeria over Tom and Katie’s wedding? Well at least someone is smart enough to make the insane older male wait to have sex. I am going to rant and rave about Yumi. Yes she is a hot number and she clearly shows it in magazines and the internet. I can clearly see what Arthur Kuroda saw in that woman. I liked her so much when I was young and she was young. But now that she is now a woman, she has gone from a sweet, humble, respectable person and into a hussy. In Japan, they call hussies skebbe. I no longer have respect for her. As an actress she has power to not do explicit photo’s, but it seems like she enjoys it. if she ever complains as to why she attracts all the jerks and not respectable loving men; I will laugh in her face. All she has to do is look at her photo’s and she will see that her image in magazines and the internet attract these horny men. She already caught one in his 40’s.Thanks to her obsession with her boobs. There are more to come in the future if she keeps on exploiting herself in a prostitute fashion. It is a money making thing but she needs to see that her image affects mens interest in her. I have read on some blogs that pictures are not worth a thousand words and that Yumi is a modest person. But no man will see that if her photo’s show the opposite personality. after all, her very first serious relationship came from a man in his 40’s. Old enough to be her dad. In fact the guy is older than her dad. How naive can she be? Well Yumi. Good luck in your search for the perfect guy, because most of your experiences will come from men who see you only in a seductive face like yours wearing itty bitty teeny bikini’s and fluanting your boobs in everything you wear. And I thought Japanese women were supposed to be humble, respectable, prudent and with a lot of morality? I guess not. You are catching up to Paris Hilton, Pamela Sue Anderson and Christina aguilara. All of whom questioned why they get all the bad guys. Duh?????? Just take a look at yourselves and how you exploit yourselves. Maybe Tom cruise is inlove. At least Katie Holmes does not flaunt herself in an explicit way!!!!!.
8 Ann // Aug 29, 2005 at 10:18 am
I saw an interesting article in the USA Weekend paper that brought back memories plus holds true facts.Lois Metlika asked Lorrie Lynch the publisher for USA weekend and asked if Tom Cruise is going through a mid life crisis because of familiar resemblence clues:
1. Jumping on couches 2.wearing black leather 3. driving motorcycles 4. Traveling everywhere with a girlfriend 16 years younger. Lois asked Lorrie if Lorrie agrees? Lorrie Lynche’s response was a big fat YES. I also agree with Lorrie Lynch. I myself will admit that I dated a man 21 years older than me. I at 22 he at 43. I regret dating him because I now carry a sign over my head that reads: Thats the 22 year old ditz that dated that desperate 43 year old baby boomer. Yes its true. If a woman in her young 20’s dates a man born between 1949 through 1964? He is born in the baby boom erra. Gee! When you come to think of it? That is pretty darn old!! He was a total sweetheart and the best relationship I had, but it comes with flaws. They are not in love but are going through denial of aging. At 20 something you are even too naive and belive he is in love with you until you notice he is too pushy and obsessive. They have a need to be desired by women. Older women do not seem to provide this because now that I am 33 years of age, I do not have that magic quality that drew older men to my attention like I did in my 20’s. Older men seem to seek younger women and for what? LUST. Here are the clues to look for if you are in your 20’s and dating a man in his 40’s:
1. He takes love and marriage too seriously to fast. Marriage becomes topic of conversation too soon and it never stops.
1. A) typical excuse for marrying? ( I am getting old and need to settle down very soon.)
2. Tons of gifts and compliments constantly.
3. He clings to you like an octopus.
4. He focuses exclusively on the object of his passion to the point you feel like an object of love.
5. It doesn’t matter how old they are; when passion hits? they become like teenagers in love.
6. When alone together at anytime, forget about romance or intimate talks. Sex is formost on his mind. You always wind up in bed getting busy. There is not one single day he will never ask for sex.
7. He will do anything to please you. He also seeks pleasure in sex with eager enjoyment.
8. The beginning of the relationship is intimate and blissful until he becomes too engrossed with you that you start to lose interest in him.
Breaking up with him is not the easiest thing too.
It took me an entire year to break up with him. I pitty Katie Holmes because if she ever has the need to break up with Tom cruise? It will take a lot of hard work and patience on Katies part. I can imagine what strong effert it took Yumi Adachi to break up with Arthur although I do not know who she is. Katie? I do wish you much luck when that time comes and you have to leave Tom because he is now too pushy for you to deal with.
9 Nikki // Oct 5, 2005 at 5:30 pm
Well…so much for the virginity and respecting the fact that she wanted hold out. Tom done got him some and a babies on the way. How special. I think she has made the biggest mistake of her life and she will regret it forever.